Years ago a dear family in my church left.
I had done a lot for them over the years, they were very involved with the church, generous with their time and money.
But when they left, I made a big mistake: I took it personally. I was angry, lost sleep, questioned my ability as a pastor.
What I should have done was let it go, give it to God, and understand that they had their own journey with Jesus, who was clearly calling them elsewhere.
This Sunday's gospel tells us I needed to forgive them for any perceived offense, although there was probably none, and bless them on their journey - celebrating their contributions and wishing them well
When somebody hurts you, one of the worst things you can be do is to hold it against them!
Who do you need to forgive?
What is God telling you to let go of?
Three guy are sitting around a table at a the bar, one says I'm so relieved, I finally paid off my car loans!
The second guy says I'm so relieved I finally paid off my school loans!
Is there any paid off my mortgage!
So the first guy says I propose a toast,
We all stand up,
And one of the guys says, "now we can all concentrate on the biggest debt of all!"
They laughed and drank because they knew that now they could be serious about the one debt we all carry and is the most satisfying to pay off - the debt of Love.
On Sunday we will hear St. Paul invite us to ‘owe nothing to anyone, except the debt of love.'
Freely each one of us have been given council, guidance, protection, comfort, peace, joy, and an ability to be hopeful about the world, All things that God has freely given us, and ask us to pass on to others.
Today, pay it back, by passing it on!
A woman was walking through the parking lot at Kroger the other day when she looked down and saw a man's wallet lying on the ground.
She picked it up.
Found some identification.
Then called the man and told him she had found his wallet.
Overjoyed, he met her at a coffee shop to get the wallet back, and tried to hand her $20 for her efforts.
But she refused and said, "I've already received my reward by finding you and giving you your wallet back. I'm just happy to help you."
Impressed, the man took the $20 and put it in the coffee shop tip jar, just so he could feel like she did - and like we do when we put people before stuff.
How is God calling you to put people before stuff today?
Are you discouraged because you didn't get the promotion?
Got outbid on the house?
Got stuck working when everyone else is playing?
The important thing to keep in mind is that God knows this!
There is no injustice or trial you are going through that God is unaware of!
When Israel was enslaved by Egypt, the Bible says God heard the cries of the suffering and God sent a savior, Moses whose story we'll hear in church on Sunday.
And just the same, God hears you,
Your unhappiness grief, and pain.
So you have 2 options ahead: your new job, house, or desire will come to pass - or God will give you the strength to make it through.
Either way, God is with you!
Do your best not to be consumed by discouragement
Rest in Jesus,
Think Godly thoughts
He will provide, he sees you, and is there to help.
| When my friend the millionaire came over for dinner, she was dressed in a t-shirt and ripped jeans. My 7-year-old said, "You don't look like a millionaire!" She said, "I don't have to look like a millionaire, I am a millionaire!" Many times you and I don't look or feel like the people we are! God says we are chosen, we are blessed, we are the apple of God's eye! We are provided for, taken care of, and have nothing to worry about! Don't believe the lies that you are anything less than royalty! You play a unique and invaluable role in God's plan for the universe and are destined for greatness in God's eyes! We don't know the truth, God knows the truth, and God says you are chosen and blessed! |
Let it go!
Holding onto grudges and giving more attention to revenge than moving on is foolish.
Confucius said when you embark on a mission of vengeance first dig two graves!
Here's Sunday's message
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When somebody's dumb driving forces you to hit the brakes to avoid a crash, don't act like you've never done the same thing.
No matter how careful we are, we're all human and make mistakes!
When it's our fault, we want people to understand and cut us some slack.
But when it's their fault, we get angry, upset, and want to tell the other person off!
Treating other people like we want to be treated means fighting back the urge to retaliate, play vigilante - and put ourselves in their shoes -
- understanding they may be having a bad day,
be going through a tremendous challenge,
or may just have made a mistake.
Three words: let it go!
Don't let someone else's bad behavior inspire imitation!
The God inside you gives you power to forgive,
power to turn the other cheek,
power to rise above the offensiveness - and hold on to your happiness!
3 words: let it go!
My young daughter and her friend started theater camp this week - with dozens of people they've never seen before.
Both of these middle schoolers talked about how hard it is to get to know the other campers. Everyone has come from other schools, different grades, and other neighborhoods - these girls talked about how awkward it is to break the ice with strangers.
Ya, we get it.
We all worry about what other people think of us, if we can really be accepted for who we are, and welcomed for the unique presence we bring.
In fact, when it comes to welcoming, the things we find easiest to welcome seem to be worry, anxiety, and fear. Our minds are constantly buzzing with the negative: not only about being accepted, but, Will things work out with my job? Will my relationships make it in the long run? What about the medical challenges I'm facing?
But Jesus has something important to say about the things we welcome: He asks us to welcome him and all the things he stands for.
That means we don't welcome fear, worry, anxiety, and pressure - we welcome abundance, possibility, blessing, hopefulness, and the power to overcome.
Today I'd like to invite you to welcome some of these things into your life.
What if we welcomed new relationships - seeing them as the blessings they can be?
What if we welcomed other people's advice - if we took a bite of humble pie and really listened to the guidance others may have for us?
What if we welcomed help, we know we'd rather give it than take it, but what blessings might await us if we took others up on their offers of assistance?
And what if we welcomed new opportunity, instead of shutting things down because we've never done it before, what if we were more open to new possibilities?
The abundant life begins by welcoming the right things into our lives.
Be welcoming, be blessed.
Little Rachel was born an only child to a pair of hard-working and socially prominent teachers. She grew up in a home that was constantly abuzz with visiting academics and local luminaries - entertained by bright, and committed parents whose schedules necessitated employing a full-time nanny named Hannah, to tend to little Rachel.
One day, Hannah noticed that young Rachel was exhibiting some troubling signs of maturity. She had begun to talk down to her friends. She was getting mean, bossy, and selfish. It seemed that Rachel had noticed how well-respected and recognized her parents were and it was going to her head.
Her nanny wondered what to do.
So one day, while walking through the park, Hannah steered Rachel over to an injured bird, lying on the ground, with a broken wing, unable to fly.
Hannah scooped up the bird in a shoe box, which immediately captivated young Rachel, who was shown how to feed and water the injured creature.
At every turn in the ensuing days, Rachel could be found caring for the bird, not just feeding, but singing, reading, and talking to this little feathered one. Rachel used her allowance to buy provisions and had given up video games and her iPhone to spend more time taking care of the sickly bird.
Weeks later, the bird was strong enough to fly and with great celebration, was released into a nearby park.
But not only had the bird's condition improved, so had Rachel's. Tending to that injured creature had produced a noticeable change in Rachel's demeanor - she was happier with herself, less critical of friends and more eager to be helpful and supportive of others.
It's as if she had discovered what you and I will learn this Sunday in the words of Jesus:
“If your first concern is to look after yourself, you’ll never find yourself. But if you forget about yourself and look to me, you’ll find both yourself and me."
When we follow the world's advice of 'looking after number one' - ourselves, first, we sooner or later find out we've been sold a bill of goods.
It's not about the stuff: possessions, power, or prestige - history is littered with the tragic stories of people who spent their lives in full-throttle pursuit of them only to discover how unfulfilling they really are.
Don't live your life for that, it's a trap.
Almighty God is found in humble service.
The king is found in the servant, nobility in humility.
Go out and help somebody today.
Call a lonely friend.
Visit someone sick.
There's somebody in need just waiting to hear from you.
Losing yourself is the best way to find yourself.
Playing in the yard the other day we came across a Roly Poly.
It's one of those little gray insects with an armadillo back that curls up into a ball when frightened.
'Why does that bug do that?' asked the 4-year-old. 'It's how it survives,' came that answer. 'That's a prehistoric insect, it's been around for millions of years. God made that bug that way to play its important role in the ecosystem. It's thrived, multiplied, and helped this big, beautiful world become what it is today .'
Ever wonder why God made you, you?
Why did God give you your gifts?
Why are you so rich and powerful?
OK, maybe not a millionaire, governor, or CEO - but remember, 93% of the world does not own a car - so it's relative - but my point is that God has gifted us with all we have to equip us to play or own crucial roles in the health and vibrancy of our ecosystem.
This weekend we will hear Jesus talk with critics who are confused, like we can get, and think that their power and wealth might be used for status, and not service. They think their gifts of intelligence, health, and influence were given to them to solely make them better - when, of course, it was given to them to make the world better.
Friends, if you're wealthy enough to be watching this video, God has been good to you. God has blessed you. God has chosen you to play an irreplaceable role in the betterment of the world. May the good Lord give us the wisdom and courage to use our strength not for status, but for service.
When my niece was a toddler she asked her mother, "How does a car work?"
My sister-in-law took her to the garage and instead of popping the hood to explain how internal combustion, fuel injection, and alternators function, she pointed to the gas cap and asked her little daughter, "What's this?".
"That's where the gas goes!" said the toddler.
Then her mom pointed to the ignition.
"That's where the key goes!" said her daughter.
Then her mom pointed to the car seats.
"That's where you go - and where I go!"
"That's right!" said her mom, "Cars are very complicated, but the important thing to know is that when everything is in the right place, the car runs pretty well."
"Oh, I get it!" said her daughter, who then added, "And mom, it's not that complicated!"
This weekend many faith communities commemorate Trinity Sunday. It's the only feast of the Church not dedicated to an event or a saint, but instead, a theological concept - our own feeble attempt at explaining God.
Yes, you've heard them all before, Patrick's 3-leafed clover, the Celt's overlapping 3 circles, the harmony of a 3-note chord, and the interplay of water - as liquid, gas, and ice - three forms of one element.
At the end of the day our human constructs are as summative as my sister-in-laws explanation of a car: we are able to understand the inner workings of God and the universe as well as my niece understands how an automobile works. Of course, this doesn't mean we shouldn't ask questions, nor get too frustrated when we find ourselves unable to understand everything we wish.
Instead, it's about resting in God - relying on God - trusting that, when everything is in its place, things run pretty well.
The first time I got drunk was with Jim Brose in Jr. High.
We made Harvey Wallbangers at his parent's minibar after they had gone out for dinner. Despite mixing two drinks together I did not like on their own, vodka and orange juice, the resulting concoction was palatable, and enough to make us very dizzy, then, suddenly, very open about sharing things we had never talked about - things that were close to my heart that might inspire negative judgements - like my crush on Lynn Mirabito or my fear that my high-pitched adolescent voice might not change.
The fact that alcohol lowers our inhibitions is well-known.
It may explain why, in our Bible reading this Sunday recounting the dramatic Pentecost event when the Holy Spirit came upon the disciples who had been praying in a house not drinking in a bar, were accused of intoxication.
All of a sudden, these disciples were liberated and freed up to speak their hearts. Their inhibitions were lifted. They didn't care who knew or what negative judgements they might inspire.
No, the disciples were not pounding mimosas, drinking to escape, but praying, trying to be more present.
And the more present we are before God the less we care about what other people think.
Today you and I are awash in a fearful culture obsessed with the impressions we make on others. Social media posts are scrubbed from imperfections. The uptick in loneliness is fueled, in part, because we don't want to let people in for fear they won't like what they see.
But the Holy Spirit inside you and me is a liberating, gregarious force granting us gracious permission to be ourselves no matter what others think.
Pentecost is about letting you be truly yourself - letting that which is deepest within you, the love, kindness, generosity, and joy in your God-like soul, shine forth into our needy world with boldness and power.
Pentecost means total release from the prison of public opinion.
It is liberation from the incarceration of worldly protocols that inhibit us from doing the holy work of our hearts.
So saints, let us be free - to get on with moving outside of ourselves: to comforting the bereaved, standing up for the poor, providing for the homeless, visiting inmates, speaking truth to power - the power of the Holy Spirit is known by the love it has for others - we’re not drunk with wine - we’re overcome by love - let us not be shy in letting that love shine.







