Chris Yaw

Within days of Alec Baldwin's tragic accidental killing, his enemies were at work.

Baldwin, who was acting on a movie set, shot a prop gun that had mistakenly been loaded with real bullets, killing a cinematographer and injuring a director.

While the actor has been visibly distraught and penitent, his enemies are choosing to kick him while he's down: Donald Trump, Jr. started selling t-shirts on his website that read 'Guns don't kill people, Alec Baldwin kills people.'

And while these t-shirts give us pause to stop and think about Trump, Jr., we do well to pause and think... about Jesus.

After all, while Christ was at his lowest, hanging on the cross, a helpless victim, watching his enemies draw lots over his belongings, all the while mocking and cursing him, what was his response?

Jesus looked upon his enemies not with hatred and vengeance, but with love. 'Forgive them,' is all he said.

He didn't hit back, scream obscenities, or print t-shirts.

Jesus loved.

Everybody.

My friend Bob says, to love God is to love the things God loves.

And God loves people. All people.

Sure God hates lots of the things we do, our lying, cheating, selfishness, and indifference to suffering, but God does not hate us. Any of us.

This weekend at church we will hear Jesus affirm the two commandments upon which our faith rests: that we love God and love our neighbors as ourselves.

When we unpack this, we realize Jesus was not put to death for being hateful, aggressive, or violent, but for loving. He loved the poor and downtrodden enough to speak up for them. He loved fairness and equality enough to champion it. He loved people who had done despicable things enough to dine with them - tax collectors, prostitutes, and sinners - everybody.

No matter what others thought, Jesus loved people. All people.

So we cannot love God and hate people.

No matter who they are or what they've done, our work is clear.

How can we trade in our tendencies to mock, denigrate, belittle, hit back, and take vengeance... for love?

If this is hard for us, relax, it's supposed to be.

Loving without bounds is how we carry the cross.

It's how we share in the passion of the Christ.

It's the hard work of following Jesus.

Can we do it?

With God all things are possible.

For the relentless mental battles we constantly fight, let us consider three words.

The first is for yesterday, and the word is mercy. Mercy for all of the misgivings we have about missed opportunities, bad behavior, basically the mistakes that we've made and just can't fix. Let's have mercy on ourselves. Let's stop putting quarters into the kick-me machine and more fully embrace our humanity, which means we will make mistakes, and many of them will be unfixable.

The second word is for today, and the word is love. There are few things that bring greater contentment than the things we do out of love. Caring for customers, being patient with loved ones, our goal for the present moment and for everything we do in it is love as we consider the scriptures, 'walk in love as Christ loved us and gave himself for us an offering and sacrifice to God' (Ephesians 5:2).

The third word is for tomorrow, the word is providence. This word tells us to leave tomorrow to God. We have no business worrying about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries at its own. While there will always be a thin line between planning and worrying, let's make sure we draw that line and stay on the right side of it.

Mercy for yesterday, love for today, and providence for tomorrow, three words to help us keep it together.

New research on the connection between money and happiness points to something we all know, but just don't want to believe.

The research, done by Nobel winning scientists Dan Kahneman and Angus Deaton, concludes that, sure, if you make $20,000 a year, and then double it to make $40,000, you will likely be significantly happier. However, if you make $150,000 a year, and then double that to make $300,000, the marginal increase in happiness declines significantly; you may be happier, but not that much.

And when we look at the track records of lottery winners and workaholics - people who have a whole lot of money, they don't appear to be that much happier, and in too many cases are actually worse off when their wealth has a corrosive effect on their personalities and lifestyles. In other words, money doesn’t buy happiness.

Unfortunately our knowledge of this truth does little to change our behavior: we continue living lifestyles as if our income did, in fact, affect our contentment. And we see this at play no more clearly than in our Gospel this Sunday.

It's a well-known story about a young man who comes to Jesus and asks how he might obtain eternal life. He claims that he's lived a righteous life, that he's never broken even one of God's commandments. Jesus says, fine, just leave everything and follow me. After the man refuses, Jesus turns to his disciples and says, ‘How hard it is to be rich!' This guy has bought into the deception that seeking money will make him happier than seeking Jesus.

It's one of the lies that Jesus came here to blow up - like losing 10 pounds will make us beautiful, getting another job will bring us permanent contentment, or finally getting that house, boat, car, or vacation will translate into unbounded harmony and fulfillment.

Jesus knows that pursuing the life of altruism, selflessness, and giving is the key to happiness, contentment, and even greatness.

All other pursuits are but cheap imitations.

We free ourselves from lies when we embrace truth.

That’s Jesus.
Let’s follow him.

I've never gone to a movie alone.

Movies, to me, cannot truly be enjoyed unless they're shared. I like to experience emotions with someone else, share the popcorn, discuss the plot, and retell the jokes on the car ride home.

So when I say I appreciate movies, I'm really saying that I appreciate companionship.

I think that's true when we take a moment on Sunday to bless our pets.

After all, pets are all about companionship - and healthy companionship at that.

Studies show that a loving pet reduces blood pressure, heart disease, and stress. Pets improve our moods, keep us out of doctor's offices, and help those with abnormal heart rhythms live longer.

The benefits are particularly acute for those who live alone. A Swedish study found that dog ownership significantly reduced the risk of heart disease and lowered one's overall risk of death.

93% of pet owners said their dog makes them a better person, making them more patient, responsible, and affectionate.

And another poll found that one out of three dog owners prefer their dog to their partner...

The gift of companionship with our blessed creatures is meant to remind us of the gift of companionship with our Almighty Creator. So bring your pet on Sunday at 10:00 a.m. for a blessing, and let us together thank them and the one who gave them to us.

When I ran the Los Angeles Marathon in 1996, I learned of a unique and rather odd tradition.

Because the race started early in the morning, the weather would be in the low 60s, necessitating use of a sweatshirt or light jacket. But after a few miles, bodies would warm up, as did the weather, and we no longer needed the extra clothing. This happened at the point along the race course that took us through a particularly impoverished area of the city.

And so the tradition was to take off your sweatshirt and toss it to one of the cheering fans who, perhaps, could use the discarded garment.

The idea is that we will be able to run the remaining 20 miles or so much faster without having to hold on to our jackets.

Letting go of the things that keep us from running as swiftly as possible is at the heart of the spiritual life. (We will hear Jesus talk more about this on Sunday).

And it invites us to not only consider those things that impede our progress - habits and hobbies, rhythms and routines, that serve as obstacles - but to see that this kind of practical re-ordering is absolutely crucial to living the lives we want to live. Jesus says ‘if your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off! In other words, let nothing, absolutely nothing, impede the progress of our spiritual growth. The detour’s not worth it - the diversion is more costly than we think, the daydreaming must wait for another time. Following Jesus means embracing a sense of urgency and attention - that the problems around us are pleading for us to do something about them now.

How are we ordering our lives so to do?

Here’s a story about two men.

The first is Christopher Columbus, who we all know sailed for India in 1492, grossly miscalculated, and instead hit the Bahamas. Convinced that he was, in fact, in India, he named the people he ran into ‘Indians’ and the new set of islands the East Indies. He, like most all of his contemporaries, thought they knew the world and considered the existence of a completely unknown continent inconceivable, and he wrote about this. Columbus stuck to his error for the rest of his life.

The second man is Amerigo Vespucci. He was an Italian sailor. He took several trips to America soon after Columbus. But he thought, in fact that Columbus had discovered a new continent. Vespucci also wrote about this - and published accounts across Europe and while few were convinced, an influential map maker named Martin Waldseemuller was. So he published a new map showing the new continent. Not knowing that Christopher Columbus had actually discovered it, Waldseemuler named it after Vespucci calling it America.

It makes you wonder if Columbus had been more open minded we might be living in ‘Chrisland’ or something like it.

The truth is that we all have trouble opening our hands to new things because it means letting go of what we’re already holding onto. In fact, when Jesus asks, in this Sunday’s gospel, for the little children to come to him, he’s making a play for such humility among us.

Being close-minded caters to our fears, being open-minded caters to our faith. In what ways are we being asked to take down the walls, check our pride at the door, and be more open to the world around us?

A guy walks into an ice cream shop and really wants two scoops of Rocky Road.

But he's on a diet and he knows he can only have one. So in the name of personal health he orders one scoop.

Two women come in right behind him, one asked the other what she wants and she says she wants Rocky Road. The first woman says that's exactly what she wants!

So when it's their turn to order the first woman orders Rocky Road and the server tells her she's lucky because there's only one scoop left.

So the first woman says "Oh don't worry about it, give me the mint chocolate chip, my friend wants the Rocky Road."

In both cases these customers denied themselves.

However one did it for himself, the other did so for someone else.

In Sunday's gospel Jesus talks about denial, and I have a feeling he's talking more about the second case then the first.

While there is no discounting the value of discipline, of denial, Jesus appears to prefer that we did so in a specific manner. It is denial centered not on self, but on others.

The challenge of following Jesus, what you and I deal with everyday, is thinking first about others before we think of ourselves. Our culture, our instincts, everything in and around us has forced our default setting to be on ourselves, when Jesus invites us to another way.

He invites us to look at our lives, at our calendars, at today, and question what we are doing in the light of love, in the light of whose day we are trying to make, who's load we are longing to lessen, how we might live our own lives, for the benefit of others.

The irony is that this denial for the sake of others doesn't simply benefit other people, but at the end of the day when we live lives of giving, we are the winners.

Ever see this guy before?

He's August Landmesser, one of thousands of Germans gathered at a shipyard during the Second World War for a dedication ceremony. And when the crowd is asked to

show its approval with the Nazi seig heil, they all do. Except August Landmesser.

Turns out that this proud German had been harboring doubts about the new regime, he had a Jewish girlfriend he was unable to marry, and he was not going to sit by idly and just go along to get along.

In the face of monolithic support for Hitler, August Landmesser said 'no,' he would not support a racist ideology, he would not support an aggressive military, he would not suppress his conscience. Instead he would speak up. No matter the cost. He would not stay silent. And he alone in the crowd, would end up on the right side of history.

Its conviction like this we will hear about on Sunday when a non-Jewish (Syrophoenician) woman breaks with all social decorum and asks Jesus to heal her sick daughter. At first, Jesus is taken aback. Yet her persistence and faith in the character and power of God wins the day - she holds her ground, talks back to Jesus, and her daughter is healed.

It’s clear that Our Lord commends those who stand up and speak out, after all, that’s what got him killed. So as followers of Jesus, we have to take this seriously: Am I silent in the face of inequality and persecution? Do I choose the easy path of cordial acquiescence? How am I shunning any temptation to speak up?

Like the Syrophoenician woman, how are we being invited to boldness? What issue(s) are we being asked to champion? How might we see ourselves as alone in the crowd?

When the Canadian border opened up to U-S tourists, my family members were among the first to head north and open up a lakefront cottage we hadn't seen for nearly 2 years.

Upon arrival we noticed, down by the beach, that a number of old and rickety beach chairs were stashed away under the shelter of trees. It was in an area where, historically, loud trespassing teenagers brought beer and made bonfires and noise on the beach at night. It had become apparent that in our absence someone had been using our property!

There was great debate about what to do with these chairs. Until I and others decided that whomever had stowed them on our property should not have the right to see them again, so the chairs were taken to the dump and ceremoniously thrown away.

The following week family members encountered an elderly man on the beach who inquired about these chairs. He said that he was a retired hydrologist, and he along with other environmental advocates had taken it upon themselves to make regular trips to our beach and take water, soil and air samples to measure the quality of the environment. He mentioned that they had brought some chairs with them because it was a long walk from where they had to park. And had anyone seen those chairs?

Embarrassed, no one spoke up - and the elderly man walked off.

Since then we have been humbled by what we saw and what we did, we were forced into introspection: why were we so distrustful? Why had we automatically jumped to such a negative conclusion? Aren't we, as Christians, called to calibrate our default setting at love and faith and not fear and suspicion?

In Sunday's gospel, Jesus confronts a band of religious leaders who seem to regularly have done the same thing. He called out the tendency of these Jewish religious leaders to operate out of control and fear instead of open-hearted trust. Jesus seems to use them as negative examples of what you and I are supposed to do.

At our core, you and I are built to love. We came into the world through love, we become our best selves when we love, and we are destined, one day, to be reunited with love. However when we listen to the voices of fear and suspicion, love becomes lessened. And God knows, that we are surrounded by voices of distrust, fear, and suspicion that are trying to lessen our love!

Bertrand Russell once said that, "love is wise, hatred is foolish. In this world, which is getting more and more closely interconnected, we have to learn to tolerate each other. We have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things that we don’t like. We can only live together in that way and if we are to live together and not die together, we must learn the kind of charity and the kind of tolerance which is absolutely vital to the continuation of human life on this planet."

We have to learn to be less judgmental of beach chairs and open to the possibility that they are owned not by selfish trespassers, but by caring people.

One of my favorite sayings in the 12 step community comes out when a group of people in recovery share about how their addiction has negatively impacted their lives - the ways they have lost homes, jobs, and relationships.

And the saying is this, “my best thinking got me here,” the implication being that the regular choice of the bottle, the needle, another cupcake, or whatever seemed like the right thing to do at the time, in retrospect certainly was not.

And so these wonderful folks, who have hit rock bottom, are now discovering that they weren’t as wise as they thought they were.

So they gather together, to hear from other people and to hear from a big book, so that they can listen less to themselves - and gather the wisdom to, instead, talk to themselves with words of truth that have come from the big book and a wise, caring community.

Don't listen to yourself, talk to yourself.

This Sunday you and I will hear Jesus say, "The work of God is to believe in the one whom God has sent, Jesus Christ."

And we may wonder:

What makes believing so difficult?

What keeps us from doing that?

Is it really, as Jesus says, work?

What keeps us from doing that is that we listen too much to ourselves, and we don’t talk to ourselves enough about the truth is according to God, and who we are in God's sight.

Time and time again we prove ourselves to be inferior predictors of our happiness, poor judges of people, lackluster predictors of stocks, world events, and even blackjack why do you think the house always wins?

This means talking to myself more from God's perspective, about who God is and what God is up to in my life, and listening less to the doubts, fears, and anxieties that pop up inside of me – the apprehension and objections that I have deep inside - is gospel work that Jesus calls me to do.

Don't listen to yourself, talk to yourself, with the words God uses, given to us in our big book, in a community of like-minded souls, and in prayer that brings it all home.

Theology 101, there is a God, and we are not him / her, let us do the work of opening ourselves up to the perspective of the one who is.

If you look at all the stories in the Gospels, there's one that stands head and shoulders above the others.

Now you may be thinking about the resurrection - or the raising of Lazarus.

But the resurrection story is only mentioned in three of the Gospels, if you go by the oldest manuscripts.

And the raising of Lazarus is only in one of the Gospels.

But there's one story that's told six times, that's right six times in four gospels.

It was so popular that it became the basis for the very first symbol of Christianity, yes even before the cross.

You've probably guessed it, it's when Jesus feeds the multitudes - with bread, and fish which was the first Christian symbol.

What made this story so popular?

What resonated so with early believers?

The first century hearers of this story lived precariously short, dangerous lives - where nearly everyone was a subsistent farmer, fisherman, or craft person. And so the daily provision of something to eat was the number one agenda item nearly every single day.

So the carefree and simple provision of such an important commodity made an indelible impression on these folk.

And Jesus' message was quite clear: if you're most important need is to be fed, I will feed you.

Don't worry about things like food, or even clothing or housing; concentrate on me, and my mission for you, to do the work of loving and redeeming the world, and I'll take care of you.

Fast forward 2,000 years to you and me, and acquiring food does not take on the same urgency, in fact most of us would be just fine if we had less of it...

But Jesus' message endures because our hunger endures:

We still hunger.

We hunger for purpose.

We hunger for meaning.

We hunger for social acceptance.

We hunger for approval.

We hunger for security.

We hunger for health.

We hunger for peace.

And Jesus' promise, that spans the centuries, is that he will feed us.

Sure, we may have wanted steak, a burrito, or spaghetti, but we find that bread and fish do the job, it's enough, while God doesn't always give us everything we want, it's usually what we need.

No matter the hunger, Jesus will feed us.

One day during our pandemic I was in the church office when two of our parishioners popped by.

They said they had received an unexpected government check. So they came to church to donate it - to give it to help others through the ministry of our parish.

There are a couple of things to note about this noble act.

What impressed me was not simply this couple's altruism and generosity, but their wisdom in knowing that the true power of wealth is wielded not by those who amass it, but by those who spend it properly. If love is the most powerful force in the universe, then acts of love like this are where real power lies.

This Sunday we will hear a couple of stories about Jesus's ministry of teaching and healing. And we will notice that his true power is not found in his ability to do the miraculous, but in using these miracles to improve the lives of others.

While none of us are able to heal and teach like Jesus, all of us have gifts and powers of our own. And our true power is not in the stockpiling or self-indulgent use of them, but in using them properly - recognizing that they were given to us for the betterment of the world.

What does this look like to us?

How are we being asked to use our gifts for those around us?

When we understand that God's plan is for us to play our own irreplaceable role in furthering the health and redemption of the world - and we choose to share our gifts, we experience the real power of God, to heal, to restore, to bring joy, and ultimately to love.

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