• The Tragedy of Obsession, the Opportunity to Step Back


    Last year we took a family photograph in the backyard.

    We all sat on a step leading up to the back door, outfitted in nice jackets and dresses, my wife and two kids. In the background you could see the rear of the house.

    When we got the picture back from the photographer we asked our four year old what he thought. He immediately exclaimed, ‘ATV!’ We were puzzled. Then we looked closely at the photograph. And sure enough, in the background, in the rear of the house was a small living room window, and in that window, a small toy ATV. What would very likely go undetected by everyone who would ever see this photo was the first thing my son noticed. What was a family photo to the rest of the world was, to him, a prize image of one of his favorite toys.

    It would be unfair to say that my son is not fully appreciating his family by his preoccupation with a toy car (he is only four), but it is fair to say that, like him, we can get so focused on small details that we miss the big picture. The consequences range from sad to tragic.

    This Sunday we will hear Jesus talk with a group of religious people who were so obsessed with a detail of their religion that they did not see the big picture. Their fixation on the details kept them from realizing they were talking with God in the flesh. Their passion for the trivial kept them from being the best they could be individually and as a force for God in the world. This is the tragedy.

    How are we obsessing over minutia – and how does it steer us off track? Does the 5 pounds we gained at a holiday bring a pall over the fact that we have a healthy, prosperous, and happy family?  Does the nick on our car paint overshadow the fact that we’re incredibly blessed because 93% of the world doesn’t even own a car?  Does our body’s inability to do what it once did, keep us from focusing on the incredible things we were able to do during the span of our lives?

    The solution is to step back. Take a deep breath. Plan a quiet time. Realize that there is a big picture. And your part in it is insanely important.

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    Reading
    Unapologetic – Francis Spufford
    The Distant Mirror – Barbara Tuchman

    Party of One – Beth Knobbe
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