Chris Yaw

I am a Christ Lover

Chris Yaw

Welcome! I’m an Episcopal priest serving a congregation in Metro Detroit... With a passion for gun safety... A zest for online Christian formation... A zeal for video blogging... A budding writer... A heart for those who have unintentionally harmed... A commitment to workforce housing... A love for marrying people... And a wonderful wife, three kids, and a cat... If we have common interests or not, I'd love to connect with you.

Me

Contact Details


  • St. David's Episcopal Church, 16200 W. Twelve Mile Road, Southfield, Michigan, 48076, USA


  • +011 248-557-5430


  • chris@stdavidssf.org

St. David's

I have served as rector of St. David's Episcopal Church in Southfield, MI for 16 years, join us Sundays in person or via zoom.

Disarmory Ministries

Working on the issue of unwanted gun disposal, we've made some real progress in helping rid the U.S. of unwanted firearms.

ChurchNext

Since 2013 we have been helping people learn more about faith through our online learning courses at ChurchNext.

Oakland Housing

Helping middle income families get better housing is a challenge that Oakland Housing has been addressing for 75 years.

Hyacinth Fellowship

Because hurting others hurts us, the Hyacinth Fellowship organizes support groups and reminds us that we are not our worst mistakes.

Yaw Wedding

I have been officiating for more than 20 years and continue to find joy in helping couples build lifelong relationships.

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  • Lighting the Fire of Compassion

     



    25,000 Russians were killed in Ukraine last month, 369,000 children will die from preventable diseases this year in Sudan, now more than 50% of the children who live in Detroit are living under the poverty line!

    Does this upset you? Or is there some other injustice that's got you wound up or ticked off?

    Because it's stuffering like this, that we may be paying attention to or not, that fueled the fervor of this guy called John the Baptist, and lit a fire underneath all the people who lived near him to come out and wake up.

    John had a way of awakening compassion that is such an integral part of you and me.

    The fervor, and radical nature of his message shows us how important it is for us to live into who we really are, so that we can live our best lives - and so our violent, suffering, broken world can find relief.

    Advent is about opening our eyes to the distractions and detours that keep us from being the caring and loving people we are -

    So let's wake up to compassion, and wake up to your destiny of care, compassion, and love For ourselves and for others.
  • Try the Other Q

     



    Did you hear those radical ​Episcopalians just called a queer, female priest to lead one of the world's largest cathedrals?

    ​She's Winnie Vargese, at St. John the Divine in New York​.

    So why did they do it?

    A) They're desperate - nobody's going to church anymore and they're trying to grab headlines.
    B) They're just being politically correct - you know those progressive, liberal churches, they don't read the Bible anymore, just the polls​.
    Or C) Instead of Queer, let's try that other Q word: maybe she's Qualified​.

    I'll take C for $100 Alex -​ or Ken.

    Have you seen Winnie's resume?

    She's got major degrees from important places, she's served big churches in substantial capacities, ​and she can preach and teach better than practically anyone​. Both Bishop Gibbs and Bishop Bonnie have brought her into our diocese in recent years to do this.

    ​And I always like to consider the possibility floated by the Hebrew prophet Joel and quoted by St. Luke, that God may be doing a 'new thing' - that the Holy Spirit is behind all this​. After all, isn't this what we look for in Advent - to keep awake for the unexpected?

    Ya, she's queer, ya, she's Qualified, ya she's called.

    When society stops judging people by who they sleep with, and starts judging people by their ability to do the job, we'll all be better off​.

    And ​we will also be better poised to see that ​our magnificent and mighty God who so loves this world, regularly sends us prophets, priests, and pastors to most importantly, walk in that love, so that you and I can better do our jobs of spreading it.
  • Kings of Leon


     The only kings we Americans even remotely feel comfortable talking about may be Burger King, the Lion King, or perhaps the Kings of Leon -


    So when it comes to this weekend's feast of Christ the King - it takes a little heavy lifting to get our minds around this idea that there is a supreme rulership of a land whose authority is worthy of our acceptance, indeed even our striving to live under it!

    This becomes easier when we understand that this land, is love.

    And this King, is love.

    We're asked to reject the earthly kingdom of domination, with its systems of political oppression, economic exploitation, and chronic violence.

    And to accept the notion of a heavenly Kingdom where everyone has enough and nobody has to be afraid.

    We can see how that kingdom is both one that needs to come as well as one that, in fits and starts, is already here.

    When Jesus asks us to pray "thy kingdom come thy will be done on Earth as it is in heaven,"

    It's this idea that we can actually bring this Kingdom to Earth - as we love.

    Love is our King, and we are it's Royal subjects, serving that Kingdom by walking in love.
  • You Can

     


    One of the Bible's most consistent messages is to persevere, It's to carry-on, to keep on, even when things look bleak.

    And For too many people, things have never looked more bleak; relentless suffering in the Middle East, assaults on funding for the poor and vulnerable in the U.S., persistent anxiety over the direction of democracy at home and abroad.

    And amidst this all comes the hopeful message of the Jesus, one that we will hear echoed this weekend,
    And that is to stay with it, remain calm, it will all be worth it in the end.

    That famous theologian Woody Allen said that 80% of success is just showing up, as if showing up consistently is easy.

    But God gives us strength to do just that, you have it inside of you because you have God inside of you, that touch of the Divine, that holy Spirit powered hopefulness to That reminds us that we can do it.

    So throw all those other voices out. Stay with it. You've got this, you can do it!
  • Handling Critics


     

    Handling our critics with fairness is a fundamental Christian conviction.

    When Jesus was in this situation, like one we'll hear about this Sunday, he didn't waver - he spoke harshly to the religious elites, he argued, debated, at one point he even turned over their tables in the temple.

    But he did not ban his critics, he did not limit their ability to minister: he wisely debated and questioned them in civil discussion - letting the best idea win the day.
    There are biblical principles at stake that tell us how to treat those who think differently.

    Tightening the rules at the Pentagon, that leave only those with a strong bias, to inform the rest of us about the world's largest military - is not a biblical way to handle the critics.

    Jesus stood for truth, even referring to himself as such, and the truth usually emerges from respectful, though sometimes difficult, conversations between people of different viewpoints.

    Jesus showed us how to disagree, argue, and debate by taking on his critics, listening and responding,: let's do it that way
  • Know Yourself


     "Knowing yourself," wrote Socrates, "is the beginning of all wisdom."


    This is because we don't see things as they are, but as we are, so to get the most authentic view of what's going on calls us to bring the truest lens we can to the party.

    And we know who we are:​ We are God's beloved, infused with the ​divine spark of love, created to be loved, and to radiate that love out into the world.

    But we get confused and think that we can't possibly be loved unless we ​earn love.

    We confuse being with doing...

    Which causes problems when we do bad things, ​because then we think we're bad people,

    This will be on display on Sunday, when we get that well-known parable about two men, a religious person and a tax collector, ​who go to a temple and pray.​ This story is all about ​self-​knowledge​: ​are you defined by what you do, or who you are?

    And the good news is that you are golden! You don't have to do anything to be loved by God, you don't have to achieve, obtain, fulfill, or complete to be adored and accepted.

    We don't do good things to be loved, we do good things because we are loved!

    Maybe that's worth a deep breath, a smile, and a spring in your step, and may that adoration find joyful expression in the day ahead.
  • Your Long Slog

     

    Have we figured out that our proudest accomplishments don't happen overnight - but only after a long slog against long odds?

    If you've ever lost significant weight, built a reputation, or made a million dollars? You know it takes a lot of time - a lot of effort!

    Forget about the lottery winners and the weight-loss 'biggest losers' - life doesn't work that way!

    Your big goal - of living out eternal life right here and now - it's work!

    On Sunday Jesus tells us about a bothersome woman - who wouldn't let go until a lazy judge grants her justice - to remind us that that long slog against long odds - pays off!

    So keep on, keeping on - with those regular habits and practices that realign us - away from the dark side and toward the light -

    You are love embodied - and you can let that big, beautiful light inside of you shine like a diamond - even in a world that's going crazy - because you don't stop, don't give in, don't give up - you're not on that long slog against long odds all alone - we are in it together, for the long run - and we will not lose.
  • 10 Lepers


    10 lepers come to Jesus. 10 lepers get cleaned, and one gets saved!


    That one leper who bothers to say thank you, is made whole, is made well, is saved, depending on the translation you read.

    In other words, this is the guy Who gets singled out by Jesus because he gets it,

    He is aware, he is introspective, he's thinking about life!

    He's the one who is most deeply connected to his spiritual self, his conscience, his deepest voice,
    It doesn't matter if he's a Samaritan, a Jew or a gentile, we all have that voice.

    It's the voice that invites us to go back and say thank you, to be gracious, appreciate everything that happens to us.

    Chances are there's something happening to you today that's begging your appreciation, your gratitude, how will you say thanks today?
  • Increase Our Faith!

     

    The government's shut down.
    Wars in Gaza and Ukraine continue.
    The threat of mass shootings keep us in fright .

    So Pastor, how can you tell me that it's all going to be ok?

    Hey, I'm not the one telling you this - stop for a moment, take a deep breath, and ask what your faith, what your God, and what your heart, are telling you!

    That part of us that is connected to God knows that the worries of this age are like fashion styles: in one season, out the next - and that our origin, destiny, yes, and even our current reality - are IN God - therefore, in love and in peace.
    My problem is remembering this.

    And this Sunday I find out I'm not alone - as we read about Jesus' disciples who were challenged by circumstances to lose their faith, and they cried out 'Increase our faith!'

    In other words - "Help us trust in you Jesus - that all this crazy and terrifying stuff happening around us is not going to win the day!"

    And Jesus says 'Believe. Trust. Place your faith in me, not in the outward circumstances, but in those inward promises.'
    Faith means trusting what your Spirit-connected heart says over what this crazy world tells us.

    And we increase it by putting more attention on that inner voice, casting aside those other voices, and giving precedent to what your soul - our conscience is telling us.

    As long as we're here, the problems will persist - but so will our faith - and our ability to lean into that part of us where God is telling us, "Relax, you've got this."
  • If Weed Dealers Find a Way...

     


    Did you ever hear the story about those marijuana dealers out on the East Coast?


    These guys had a weed business, but there was a lot of competition, so they decided not just sell the marijuana, but deliver it, there's nobody doing that!

    The reason there was is because it was illegal deliver it.

    But these guys didn't give up, they got creative.

    They opened up a cannabis detective agency.

    Call them up, tell them where you lost your weed, what kind it was, and how much you lost, and the detectives would go out, find it, bring it to you, and charge you a finder's fee.

    When the cops came to arrest them, they first had to admit this was pretty freaking clever.

    We get an old-timey version of this in Sunday's gospel about a dishonest manager who acts just as shrewdly.

    These are stories about getting stuck, and finding a way out - when there are seemingly intractable situations, like the war in Gaza, and the split between right and left in American politics today.

    Jesus is trying to teach us that we need to get creative, we need to have faith, there is a way out.

    I don't care about the apathy and the hopelessness out there, if those weed sellers and a dishonest manager did not give up and throw in the towel and found a way to break through the log jam, I think we can use our imagination, intelligence, and creativity to find a way out of ours too.

    See you Sunday
  • Why Was Jesus' Ascension into Heaven so Joyful?

     



    Have you ever noticed that unlike the death of a parent, the last day as president of a beloved politician, or the retirement of a favorite celebrity or sports star, the Ascension of Jesus into heaven prompted an entirely different reaction.

    We look at the beloved disciples who were present, and we see none of this bittersweet feelings of celebration of the past amidst the morning of the loss!

    No!

    The gospel of Luke tells us that as Jesus ascended into heaven, the disciples worshiped him, then returned to Jerusalem with great joy.

    There is excitement and anticipation for what's happening! Why? Three reasons.

    First, the disciples knew exactly what to do. During 3 years of ministry with them, Jesus had shown them everything they needed to do and they were confident they could do it.

    Second, Jesus did not leave his disciples alone. Time and time again he told of the Holy Spirit's arrival, and the disciples knew it would happen soon, which it did.

    And finally, Jesus promised he would return. Just as he had miraculously fed, healed, and risen from the dead, his promise to one day reunite, gave them confidence to live and die for the faith.

    It is now the eve of my departure from St. David's for a 3-month sabbatical. I will be gone from June 1 to September 1. No, it's not like Jesus is leaving you. But I would like to challenge us to take this time of leave as a way to draw closer to Christ. God has a lot planned for St. David's - there is much work to do.

    First, let this be a time to trust in Jesus' guidance. We find this in his Word, the lives of the Saints, and our church community. Your wardens are well-equipped for what's ahead. Let's thank God for their devotion and care. We will be well cared-for.

    Second, let us make time for the Holy Spirit, God is not going on sabbatical. God is present to help us grow during this time. Let us invite the Spirit in through prayer and meditation. The Spirit is the one who is with us to comfort, guide, and empower us. We are not alone, but have that little light of direction shining in our souls.

    Finally, let us trust in Jesus' return. Just as he has been present for us, to provide, protect, and give purpose, having faith that we will be reunited can bring us through more difficulties than we may know. This is not all there is, We have eternity with God and our loved ones awaiting. I look forward to being with you come fall and know that we will be kept in God's loving hands.

    So let us consider not only how reunions bring great joy, but the ways that departures can as well.
  • Goodbye Training Wheels

     


    It is like the moment you let go of the bike and see your little one cycling on their own, witnessing a whole new world of mobility opening an even bigger window into exploration and possibility!
    In the Christian story this did not happen at Creation, the Incarnation, or even the Resurrection as profoundly as it does on Thursday, Ascension Thursday - 40 days after the Resurrection, when Christ ascends to heaven, essentially taking his hands off the bike, and giving us new mobility that opens up bigger windows for exploration and possibility.

    Ascension Day is a day of responsibility and ownership. No longer can we call upon our leader in the same way and for the same things.

    Now it's up to us.

    Our partnership with God in the ongoing repair of the world takes on a new dimension as Christ ascends to the Father's right hand, not a geographical place but an authoritative one.

    And that authority, which will come to us writ large in 10 days time with the drama of Pentecost, is what we need now more than ever to face the problematic landscape before us.

    For we have been given moral authority for clarity and power to stand against injustice and oppression. We need to speak up for the immigrant, impoverished, and marginalized.

    Ascension Day means that we no longer have for the excuse that it's God's problem, that thoughts and prayers are enough, no!

    We have been given all we need to do what Christ calls us to do.

    Let's get on the bike, embrace the journey, confident that the one who taught us how to ride knew what he was doing.
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