In one of our kitchen cabinets sits a big bag of M&Ms.
M&Ms are a reward for various activities the children complete. There are thousands of M&Ms in the bag. If the kids do everything right, they can get up to 6. Seeing the joy on their faces as they slowly pop these into their little mouths, I would love to give them the whole bag. I would love to see their cheeks covered in chocolate as they throw them up into the air and fill the room with laughter. It is my good pleasure to give them what they want. But I don’t, for obvious reasons.
M&Ms are a reward for various activities the children complete. There are thousands of M&Ms in the bag. If the kids do everything right, they can get up to 6. Seeing the joy on their faces as they slowly pop these into their little mouths, I would love to give them the whole bag. I would love to see their cheeks covered in chocolate as they throw them up into the air and fill the room with laughter. It is my good pleasure to give them what they want. But I don’t, for obvious reasons.
And so my kids wonder why I don’t give them what they want.
They see no harm in the spreading of such apparent joy. They can’t understand
that there could possibly be any logical reason for me to withhold from them
something so pleasurable.
So, occasionally I get called names or receive an angry look.
Especially when I suggest the M&Ms be shared. Little do the children know
that if they share their M&Ms I am more than happy to give them more, maybe
even more than 6. Their decisions to protect what they have and to only believe
they’ll ever get 6 is something they may grow up believing. At least their
parents did.
In this Sunday’s gospel we consider the grand possibilities
that exist beyond our own self-limiting urges, beliefs and behaviors. We ponder
the notion that God’s infinite riches may be unlocked by our generosity – that
the more we are able to hold the value of our possessions at arms length, developing
an attitude of giving and sharing, the more true riches we just might see
coming our way – (so that we might share more…).
How are you and I limiting God’s generosity by being stingy
with ours? How might we take more steps toward sharing, getting our eyes off of
our stuff and onto those who may need it more than we do?
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Reading
Gulliver’s Travels – Jonathan Swift
Practicing Resurrection – Eugene Peterson
Free: Spending Your Time and Money on What Matters Most – Mark
Scandrette